As school counselors, we know how important it is to help students build social and emotional skills early. Elementary school is a critical time for teaching kids how to recognize and manage their emotions, build healthy relationships, and develop the confidence to navigate social situations. Social emotional learning activities aren’t just “nice-to-haves” — they lay the foundation for lifelong skills like empathy, communication, problem-solving, and resilience.
Social Emotional Learning Activities for Elementary School
Social Emotional Learning Activities for Elementary School
Hi, I’m Rachel Davis! I’m a former school counselor with over 8 years of experience in the classroom. I specialize in creating easy-to-implement strategies for busy school counselors, and I am the counselor and curriculum designer behind Bright Futures Counseling, a community designed to offer counselors the support they need to feel confident serving their students well.
As a prior school counselor and now school counselor community leader, I see so many counselors wanting to serve every student, but feeling overwhelmed by the sheer number of SEL activities out there. Where do you start? How do you choose lessons that are engaging, effective, and age-appropriate? That’s why I put together a collection of some of my favorite social-emotional learning activities for elementary students that can easily be integrated into counseling groups, class lessons, or individual sessions.
What is Social Emotional Learning?
Social emotional learning, or SEL, is the process through which students learn to understand and manage their emotions, set goals, show empathy for others, build relationships, and make responsible decisions. SEL equips students with healthy coping skills to handle stress, regulate their reactions, and return to a calm state so they can learn effectively.
Studies show that the benefits of social emotional learning extend beyond the classroom. Kids who practice SEL early develop skills that help them succeed socially and academically for years to come. They learn perspective-taking, cooperation, and how to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively.
Why SEL Matters in Elementary School
We all know that many of our students are coming to school dysregulated and without the propor coping tools to self-regulate. When students are already in a fight or flight brain, they aren’t able to effectively learn.
By incorporating SEL activities into your counseling program or classroom routines, you’re helping students:
- Recognize and manage their emotions
- Build positive relationships with peers and adults
- Make responsible decisions
- Develop self-confidence and empathy
Even small SEL moments, like a brief morning check-in or a short journaling activity , give students opportunities to practice these skills in meaningful ways.
Top Social Emotional Learning Activities for Elementary Students
Here are some of my go-to SEL activities for elementary kids. Each one is easy to implement and designed to engage students while building important social emotional learning skills.
1. Morning Greetings
Start the day with a warm hello. Greeting students as they enter the school, or their classrooms, can set a positive tone for learning and connection. Some students love high-fives, others prefer a wave or a fist bump. A little flexibility goes a long way in making each child feel seen and valued.
If you are beginning the day by teaching a small group or class lesson, you can use these morning meeting discussion cards as a simple, done-for-you activity to help foster connections.
2. Emotions Check-In
Spend a few minutes each morning asking students how they’re feeling. This simple practice helps them name their emotions and gives you insight into who may need extra support that day. You can use a feelings chart or even just a quick thumbs-up/thumbs-down system.
If you’re looking for a simple feelings chart to display in your office, or take with you, you can grab one for free in my free resource library .
3. Read-Alouds
SEL-themed read-alouds are a fantastic way to spark discussion about emotions, relationships, and problem-solving. After reading, guide students in talking about the characters’ feelings and choices. This encourages perspective-taking and empathy in a natural, story-driven way.
4. Emotion Charades
Give students the chance to act out emotions while classmates guess what they’re feeling. Start with simple feelings like happy, sad, or frustrated, and gradually introduce more nuanced emotions. Emotion charades is a fun, active way to practice recognizing and expressing feelings.
You can find other self regulation games and activities in my Self Regulation Coping Skills Bundle .
5. Role Play
Role-playing helps students step into someone else’s shoes. Create scenarios based on common classroom challenges, such as including someone in a game or resolving a disagreement. Have students alternate roles and reflect on how each person feels. This activity helps build character by fostering empathy, problem-solving, and social perspective-taking.
6. Compliment Circle
Teach kindness and gratitude with a compliment circle. Students sit in a circle and pass a small object, giving a genuine compliment to the next person before handing it off. You can tie the compliments to specific SEL topics, like recognizing acts of kindness or teamwork. Another fun alternative is to pass a beach ball around the room!
7. Scavenger Hunts
Scavenger hunts build collaboration, organization, and decision-making skills. Divide students into small groups to find objects or complete tasks around the classroom. Celebrate their efforts with small rewards and be sure to adapt challenges to their age and abilities.
8. Positive Affirmations
Encourage students to practice self-talk with positive affirmations. This can boost resilience, self-esteem, and overall well-being. Keep it simple with statements like:
- I can do hard things
- I believe in myself
- I can solve problems with patience
One of my favorite small groups to teach is my Self-Esteem Girls Counseling Group . It comes with 8 weeks of ready to use resources for helping foster self love in elementary girls.
9. Would You Rather?
This classic game helps students practice decision-making. Pose age-appropriate scenarios that require students to weigh options and explain their choices. It encourages critical thinking while keeping the activity fun and interactive.
10. Puzzle Games
Group puzzles or problem-solving activities promote teamwork, patience, and perseverance. Students learn how to work together, manage frustration, and celebrate successes. Reward collaboration as much as completion to reinforce positive social behaviors.
11. The Friendship Tree
Create a visual display of kindness with a friendship tree. Each time a student performs a kind act or builds a new friendship, they add a paper leaf with their name to the tree. This activity fosters a sense of community and encourages empathy among classmates.
Making SEL Easy for Busy Counselors
I know how overwhelming it can feel to plan engaging SEL lessons while managing a full caseload. That’s why I love ready-to-use resources like the Self Regulation Scoot Game , the Expected Behavior Card Game, and my Mindfulness Small Group . These tools are designed to make implementing SEL simple, effective, and fun.
By integrating simple SEL activities into your lessons, or providing teachers with these tools, students can practice social-emotional skills directly in their learning environment. The more support students receive in their general education setting, the fewer referrals you have for individual interventions. It’s a win-win for both students and counselors.
Final Thoughts
SEL doesn’t have to be complicated or overwhelming. A mix of interactive games, role plays, read-alouds, and journaling activities can make social emotional learning an engaging, meaningful part of your students’ day. Incorporate just one or two of these activities this week and watch your students grow in empathy, self-awareness, and confidence.
And the best part? You don’t have to do it alone! Inside IMPACT , there are countless ready-to-use resources and lesson plans designed to help busy counselors like you feel confident in supporting students’ social-emotional growth. With a little guidance and preparation, you can make SEL a joyful, transformative part of every student’s school experience.
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