Healthy Relationships Middle School Counseling Lesson Classroom Guidance Activity
Middle School (6th-8th)
Researched Based
ASCA & CASEL Aligned
Fun and Engaging
Easy to Implement
Digital Download
Supports Pencils of Promise
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Help middle school students build stronger friendships and recognize the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships with this engaging Healthy Relationships Digital Class Lesson! This editable school counseling lesson teaches students the foundations of healthy relationships, how to recognize relationship red flags, and how to navigate conflict in a positive way.
Through interactive games, movement-based activities, discussion, and real-life examples, students will explore what healthy relationships look and feel like while practicing skills they can use in their own friendships and relationships.
This low-prep, editable classroom counseling lesson is perfect for school counselors, SEL teachers, advisory classes, and classroom guidance lessons.
Students will learn how to:
⭐ Identify important foundations of a healthy relationship
⭐ Recognize characteristics of healthy vs. unhealthy relationships
⭐ Identify red flags and warning signs in relationships
⭐ Understand the importance of honesty, respect, listening, and support
⭐ Recognize behaviors such as pressure, dishonesty, secrecy, and manipulation
⭐ Practice healthy conflict-resolution skills
⭐ Use I-Statements to communicate during conflict
This resource includes:
✔ Detailed Counselor's Guide with instructions and answer keys
✔ Editable digital lesson slides
✔ 3 interactive games to help students discover foundations of healthy relationships
✔ "Find Someone Who..." interactive activity
✔ Relationship Red Flags activity with real-life examples
✔ Opportunities for movement, participation, and whole-class discussion
✔ BONUS Conflict Resolution Worksheet
✔ I-Statement practice activity
Students will explore:
• What makes a relationship healthy
• How healthy relationships should make us feel
• Behaviors that strengthen friendships and relationships
• Warning signs that a relationship may be unhealthy
• The difference between supportive behaviors and relationship red flags
• How to communicate effectively when conflict happens
• How to use I-Statements to resolve disagreements
Why You'll Love This Lesson
⭐ Completely editable to fit your students' needs
⭐ Interactive games get students up, moving, and talking
⭐ Uses relatable examples students can easily apply to their own lives
⭐ Minimal prep—simply present and teach
⭐ Encourages meaningful discussion about friendships and relationships
⭐ Includes a bonus activity for practicing conflict resolution
⭐ Helps students develop practical relationship skills they can use right away
Whether you're helping students navigate friendships, recognize unhealthy relationship patterns, or communicate more effectively during conflict, this engaging lesson gives students practical tools for building and maintaining healthy relationships.

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